In this study we experimentally determine phlogopite/melt partition coefficients of Ra and other trace elements in a lamproitic system. This work was achieved using an analytical technique (LA-ICP-MS) with low detection limits (~ 0.01 fg) permitting the measurement of the very low Ra concentrations feasible in experiments (~ 1 ppb). D_Ra^{phlogopite/melt} was determined to 2.28 ± 0.44 and 2.84 ± 0.47 in two experiments, the ratio D_Ra/D_Ba is around 1.6. The compatibility of Ra in phlogopite results from an ionic radius being close to the apex of the lattice strain parabola for earth alkalis in the large XII-coordinated interlayer site of phlogopite. A re-evaluation of D_Ra and D_Ra/D_Ba for magmatic minerals containing appreciable Ra, yields D_Ra^mineral/melt ranging from ~ 2.6 for phlogopite down to 2–3 • 10^− 5 for pyroxenes, and D_Ra/D_Ba^mineral/melt from ~ 4 for leucite to 2 • 10^− 2 for orthopyroxene. The influence of melt composition on D_Ra/D_Ba is less than 10%. All investigated minerals have different D_Ra/D_Ba, strongly fractionating Ra from Ba. Thus, for magmatic systems, (²²⁶Ra)/Ba in the various minerals is not constant, these minerals do not form a straight line in the (²²⁶Ra)/Ba–(²³⁰Th)/Ba system at the time of crystallization and thus, there is no (²²⁶Ra)/Ba–(²³⁰Th)/Ba isochron at t₀. ²²⁶Ra–²³⁰Th–Ba mineral dating is thus applicable only to model ages calculated from mineral–glass pairs with known D_Ra.